助人为乐者

助人为乐者1

一个乐于助人的青年遇到了困难，想起自己平时帮助过许多朋友，他于是去找他们求助。

然而对于他的`困难，朋友们全都视而不见、听而不闻。

真是一帮忘恩负义的家伙！

他怒气冲冲，他的愤怒这样激烈，以至于无法自己排遣，百般无奈，他去找一位智者。

智者说：“助人是好事，然而你却把好事做成了坏事。”

“为什么这样说呢？”

他大惑不解。

智者说：“首先，你开始就缺乏识人之明，那些没有感恩之心的人是不值得帮助的，你却不分青红皂白地帮助，这是你的眼浊；

“其次，你手浊，假如你在帮助他们的时候同时也培养他们的感恩之心，不致让他们觉得你对他们的帮助天经地义，事情也许不会发展到这步田地，可是你没有这样做；

“第三，你心浊，在帮助他人的时候，应该怀着一颗平常心，不要时时觉得自己在行善，觉得自己在物质和道德上都优越于他人，你应该只想着自己是在做一件力所能及的小事。比起更富者，你是穷人；比起更善者，你是凡人。

“不要觉得你帮了别人，应该这样想：是上帝借着你的手帮了别人，一切归于上帝，不要归于你自己。”

助人为乐者2

give a help hand as a volunteer.

we everyone all ought to make one being generous in giving help , does not ask bring back a report, do not ask the back-off people for help. be just to make one being ready to help for free other peoples people.

the people who makes one being generous in giving help is in fact very simple , person little thing , that all so to speak are to be generous in giving help other even though being to help. finish having as the saying goes: do not think any vice trivial, and so practice it .

it is just because that such, we do not believe helping others is piece of minor matter, the morning makes night compose it makes no difference, had better not compose, may make you become a egoistic people like that only, others is ready to be that egoistic one person gives a hand neither hereafter during the period of you have difficulty.

in life, we can come across the people who needs to give a hand always and everywhere all , we may feel happy as long as helping his once, soon, possibly will be joyful one such our state of mind has also finished changing naturally all day long, also accommodate oneself to energy more well, happier life.

we are wanted as far as possible help others, bear range as long as not exceeding us. others’ fault what thing help to be going to help, to need to draw a clear distinction between the bad thing and the good deed in helping. if one people let you go to help him to commit murder and arson, rob stealing; be to be able to help him never. carry going to a thing , asking about a road down and so on in selfs hand if one people lets you give a hand , be to be able to tell him then.

you have helped that person not only single, this has also implied, you have helped self while you help others, having helped self to have known that a friend, helps self moment having difficulty in hereafter is able to help you coming somebody, one among them probably having helped your that person to be that you once helped during the period of you come up against difficulties.

therefore, we need to act as a people who is generous in giving help, have shown our loving heart like that not only , have become a sight for sore eyes