这家伙，今天国庆，婚礼前大家一起起立，先放国歌，可以想像都是一个班同学一起起立听国歌时的情景，像上学时升旗一样.今天看到了好多熟悉的面孔，这些同学见一面也真不容易，也只有结婚这样的大事才能小聚上一回，正如大家说的，借此机会主要是见同学，聊聊天，参加婚礼是次要的，挺有道理的.
永恒应该是我班第十六个结婚的，男生的第五个，我挑了两桌让大家都坐下了，大家都感叹见一面不容易啊，虽然都在一个城市，但各自有各自的生活了.一个小动作，一句玩笑，都是那样的熟悉与亲切.与山子坐在一座，像上学时一样一阵狂聊，给旁边的女生逗的都不行了，也想起了许多往事，还在讨论当时我和那山谁在学校有名，哈，这个问题很复杂，那时的山子可是个诗人，没少骗小女孩的眼泪啊，山子说我有名，到处下战书挑战，哈，其实是英雄相惜吧.永恒今天穿西服很帅，那是当然，九七出来的.当年在操场上拒绝穿校服，十一个男生一起穿黑色西服领带皮鞋在操场上也是相当有气势的，那可是一道风景，而且走路都是两个人一排，一进走廊一排整齐的皮鞋声，引了多少个班女生的眼球啊.今天给永恒准备了六七个节目，大家玩的挺开心，大家把我们班所有的红包都收了上来，装到了个盒子里，我封的口，在上面用两面胶写的九七，当永恒看到这一盒红包和九七这两个字时心里复杂的心情和微红的眼睛，永恒说，九七微应他一辈子都不会忘了.其实这也是大家的心理话，九年前在全区招的四十个尖子生，放弃了重点高中，奔着最后一届分配工作来到了这个集体，一起经历风雨，一起走过来.九七这个词太重了，让我们一代人无法释怀.
今天还有老大，旭子在浙江没回来，李楠重才昨晚来的，今天上班，大家开玩笑说等到我或者那山结婚时我们班同学还不得四桌啊，哈，或许没那么夸张，但的确家属是越来越多了，不过其实我认识参加同学婚礼就应该像同学联欢会一样，标上一句{家属谢绝参加｝，要不说话还真得注意点，真要是哪句说走嘴了，还不得又出来点什么旧船票，破船之类的事啊，麻烦啊，哈哈.今天每个同学走时，我都和走的人说"祝你幸福"，当我走时，几个女生一起叫我，我回头看，她们一起齐声喊"东，祝你幸福"哈，还是同学在一起感觉真好.
聊天中朋友说下个月要结婚了，问我有没有时间回去参加婚礼。还真想去看看她穿上婚纱的幸福样子。可担心时间安排不来。于是问她是下个月的哪天。九号，九月九号。她重复着。嗯，九月九号，九九(久久)，希望她幸福永久!
在经历了一段感情后，她曾说，不想再恋爱了，可能自己再也爱不上任何人。一直为她担心。是啊，六七年的感情说断就断。失去双亲的同时又失去了爱情，这需要多大的勇气来接受与面对?还好都走过来了，还好她又找到了她的幸福。
是啊，她说的没错：谁都没有权力没收了谁的幸福。
祝福你——我的朋友，幸福久久
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非常经典有深度的电影英文台词
1.一个人总要走陌生的路，看陌生的风景，听陌生的歌，然后在某个不经意的瞬间，你会发现，原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.
2.幸福，不是长生不老，不是大鱼大肉，不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃，想被爱的时候有人来爱你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.
3.爱情是灯，友情是影子，当灯灭了，你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友，是在最后可以给你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.
4.我爱你不是因为你是谁，而是我在你面前可以是谁。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
5.爱情，要么让人成熟，要么让人堕落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
6.举得起放得下的叫举重，举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜，大多数人的爱情，都是负重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
7.我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中，人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人，用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人，再用一天的时间去爱上一个人，到最后呢，却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
8.一个人一生可以爱上很多的人，等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后，你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富，它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.
9.年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱，但是随着年龄的增长，终于领悟到爱一个人，就算用一辈子的时间，还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人，体谅这个人，直到爱上为止，是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
10.当明天变成了今天成为了昨天，最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天，我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走，这不是静止火车里，与相邻列车交错时，仿佛自己在前进的错觉，而是我们真实的在成长，在这件事里成了另一个自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.
11.离开我就别安慰我，要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
12.曾经拥有的，不要忘记。不能得到的'，更要珍惜。属于自己的，不要放弃。已经失去的，留作回忆。
Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.
13.我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离，这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人，充满变数，我于是后退一步，静静的看着，直到看见真诚的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
14.男人的爱是俯视而生，而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山，那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
15.好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界，坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
16.在自己面前，应该一直留有一个地方，独自留在那里。然后去爱。不知道是什么，不知道是谁，不知道如何去爱，也不知道可以爱多久。只是等待一次爱情，也许永远都没有人。可是，这种等待，就是爱情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
17.有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦?我们总以为那份痴情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我们才发现，它一直都是很轻，很轻的。我们以为爱的很深，很深，来日岁月，会让你知道，它不过很浅，很浅。最深和最重的爱，必须和时日一起成长。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.
18.在这个世界上，只有真正快乐的男人，才能带给女人真正的快乐。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
19.女人如果不性感，就要感性;如果没有感性，就要理性;如果没有理性，就要有自知之明;如果连这个都没有了，她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
20.一段不被接受的爱情，需要的不是伤心，而是时间，一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心，需要的不是同情，而是理解。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.
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